Sherry V - Journal of my New Adventure

SherryV

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So I'm going to jump in.... I've been a member for less than a month but I'm enjoying reading about your journeys to where you are today and about all your animals. I've decided I have a lot more to learn but time is on my side.

I'm married to my husband Dennis for 25 years. We have one son who is 22 years old. We live in a small rural community on one acre of land. The location of our home is ideal for commuting to several towns/cities (by Maine standards) for work.

My journey is starting with maybe a mid-life crisis :oops: not really sure what to call it. I would like a less stress life so I started evaluating what makes me happy and what doesn't. I knew my biggest issue was my current job. It's hard to leave a company when you've been there 11 years (lots of vacation and great benefits) not to mention starting somewhere else.... well this was answered last spring with a lay off announcement. I call it a blessing in disguise; four month notice that my last day would be 10/31. I could have applied within the company but they were offering a great severance package so I decided to work out the notice and collect the severance and hopefully find a new job with a smaller company.

I've been wanting a more self sufficient life style; grow my own food, some goats for milk and soap making; chickens for eggs and meat. Maybe bees (never thought of that until I was researching). Nothing too big just three of us in the family. I've researched lots about homesteading and living off the grid (not sure I want to go that extreme yet, need my internet for sure). That's where I happened on BYH website, while researching goats. What a great group of people and caring for one another. My homesteading idea now seems do able and not just a crazy idea (family and friends reactions). I realize homesteading isn't everyone's thing so not sure why people seem judgmental about it.

I've talked to DH about it and he wasn't on board at first but now that he sees how much it means to me he is ready to jump on board. My son is all for it. He loves farming and animals (worked on a dairy farm in high school and helped a local farmer with growing garlic).

I guess I'm ready to jump in now with more planning; just found a new job that I will start on Monday. This is a relief; job hunting is a part-time job in itself. We have started a list of cosmetic updates we need to do to our current home to get it ready for the market this spring. We also look online for properties but can't put the cart before the horse. Need to sell one to purchase another. Hopefully we find more land, less house is okay. I want simple.

I've enjoyed reading@Latestarters journey however it did stress me out too... time will tell if we have as many issues as he did with selling and buying. I hope to get to learn about more about everyone on BYH and hope you are ready for "dumb" questions from someone who knows nothing about goats.

Well, I'll end here for now.

Thanks for reading/listening.
Sherry
 

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Nice start! One thing you might consider is selling what you have when you are ready, especially if it is a seller's market and renting if you haven't found the replacement yet. No better buyer than one who has the down payment money and doesn't have to play the domino game - purchase contract contingent on getting a sale contract and that buyer has the same contingency, etc.
 

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Nice start! One thing you might consider is selling what you have when you are ready, especially if it is a seller's market and renting if you haven't found the replacement yet. No better buyer than one who has the down payment money and doesn't have to play the domino game - purchase contract contingent on getting a sale contract and that buyer has the same contingency, etc.

Yes, Bruce, that is our plan. Put our home on the market in the spring then live in our camper for the summer and look for a new property. We will need to pay for storage for all our "stuff". Hopefully by fall we will have a new place, if not we can rent for the winter and continue looking.
 

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Woot! Even better! Nearly free housing. And since you will be paying to store your stuff, you'll likely be more critical of what things you REALLY use and want to keep rather than just having a moving company pack it all up and dump it at the new place.
 

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Well hello there! Glad to see you made it! GREAT start! looking forward to following along on your journey! :clap
 

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Glad ya have decided to take that 'First Step'....it is always the hardest, but then they get easier as ya get things moving...having a 'Plan and Direction' is certainly a 'Plus' and it will be interesting to keep up with your 'Adventure'...:thumbsup
 

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Welcome to journaling! I loved reading your story and look forward to how things go with your plans. Sorry about losing the job, but congrats on the new one!

I would like a less stress life so I started evaluating what makes me happy and what doesn't.
Well, not sure it's less stress - have you read some of the 'when will my goat give birth' threads? :p
http://www.backyardherds.com/threads/first-time-momma.34884/

But you trade one type of stress for another. It's hard to describe, but if it's meant to be, it's usually easier stress. And the rewards that come along with it fill your heart - watching a newborn lamb or kid take its first steps, looking out at your own land, hearing your sheep or goats call to you when they see you, harvesting food you've grown yourself.

No questions are dumb, and you never stop learning. Good luck!
 

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