77Herford Farm Zoo Journal Moving

[77Herford]

Well I'm conducting an experiment. I put the bottle calf in with Mulans mom as she is very motherly. I'm keeping the calf in a small stall connected to the milking parlor and Mulans mama a always curious and sometimes moo's at him as if to say I'll take you. So today during milking I let him out with her and mulan and after some sniffing and licking she let him nurse without any issues. I put the new family in a 1 acre connecting pasture to see how things go and by the end of the day they were just like any other family. Mulan and the calf sleep together with mom standing nearby so bottle baby has a mom and sister now.

 

[77Herford]

Ok, I'm getting annoyed with BYH's upload section. That and not understanding my Mother computer is challenging my patience.

On a sad note I was going to contact each person I know on here better seperately but I'm not patient enough for that. I got some bad mail from my wife's new divorce lawyer, divorce papers. I guess if she thinks its over or wants it to be over then I guess I'll sign off. She wants to travel the world and wanted me to come but its not like I can just take off for months at a time. I have roots tied down here and she knew that coming into this, maybe she expected me to fail.

Luckily I have several lawyers in my family and she knows trying to screw me out of my farms ain't gonna happen. So she will be getting some money but not the farms.

 

[DonnaBelle]

I'm sure she prefers the cash to the farms. Perhaps that is an indication of why you're getting a divorce.

DonnaBelle

 

[autumnprairie]

 

[TTs Chicks]

so sorry to hear that

 

[daisychick]

Sorry to hear about the divorce issue. I have been there done that and it was the most stressful and depressing thing I ever went through. Don't let yourself keep it all in, if you need to talk about it.

 

[redtailgal]

77,

I'm sorry to hear about this.

People can be soo.....something. I dont know the word here.

IF she seriously goes through with this, I know that you will do the right thing by her, but stand up for yourself as well. Stand up for what you have worked for, dont let her take you for a ride.

 

[77Herford]

No one is taking me for a ride. Like I said previous I got the legal backup and she knows it. My family is still in the process of reading the paperwork and I've gone over some of her requests. Many of them I don't mind giving in on, like her rabbit, lol. But seriously her car I helped rebuild so I'm half owner and would have no problem letting keep that as it continues to fall apart. She wants half the value of the house, which I thought humorous since I bought the place before we married. She is trying to get damages from me for the cow that kicked her. I PAID FOR HER TREATMENT!! My family pampered her for a couple of weeks while she recovered and she wants more....
I must say she has a lawyer with guts or he's clueless.

 

[Remuda1]

Did she let you know prior to serving you that she was filing? If its none of my beeswax, that's okay. Just wondering what kind of tone she's setting. As far as the cow kicking her, didn't I read that you had told her not to go by herself?

 

[WildRoseBeef]

I'm sorry to hear about this!