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They sent more pictures the kids are completely in love with her. Which is nice. The kids are having a easier time i am having a rougher time with it but granted i spent alot more time with her then them. Plus added bonus hormones and stress also add to the problem.
:hugs :hugs :hugs Your new baby will take up alot more of your time... she is in a great place for her now.... and maybe a calf of hers will be in your future down the road to start over with..... stress and hormones are making it harder... Just think, she is better off, than staying there if they had turned her out... or getting run through the sale barn and who knows where/what her life would have been. Getting pictures is even better because you are not worrying about fences, or buying feed or anything right now... one LESS thing for you to stress over right now...
 

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Got the last pig loaded gonna take her to my friends house drop her off. Then hit the pet store and the grocery store. I also going to try my best to go through things and pack i been avoid it some lately. Gonna get it done and get the furinture we arent keeping out of the house and the things we are keep broke down and into storage. Going to keep mattresses out a bare minimum of linens, clothes, toys and ect out. Probably keep only the foldable tables in the house for school and eating the rest will be put in storage this way i can start getting walls and everything cleaned up and ready so all we have to do is load up the rest in the truck and go. Will be moving our chickens to my parents next weekend and finishing up everything. Gonna talk to dh about getting a temporary storage unit somewhere so we can move our things there while we wait to do something. Looking into buy some land or renting or pretty much anything that we can do just to move. Rv deal came back said they want 50% down and wont finanice used for us so need decide what we going to do. Sounds silly but i really dont know how i feel about rv parks a really nice one in this area had a shoot out two people where shot one is critical the other is going to be fine. Makes me nervouse abouy being in that situation with five kids. Probably being over concerned but its something we need to think about.
 

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Find something to rent for now. This is happening way too fast and you are having to make quick decisions that neither of you are prepared for.
 

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Are your parents in a position to, or have the space to, allow an RV at their house For a while? I'm happy for the great home for your heifer. I know it's hard but, sounds like a perfect place with love and good care. She's a beautiful girl.
 

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Maybe I am petty... and maybe out of line.... BUT WHY in the he//.... why on earth, would you bother with getting the walls cleaned up in the house at this point in time? YOU are the ones being "PUT OUT" with their treatment of you. you are the ones that have put up with their bad attitudes, RUDE treatment of your kids, you are the ones that have suffered their ridicule and verbal abuse...

SORRY my attitude is get what you need, want, have to do to get out..... and GET OUT and let them deal with it. If the place is that bad a shape as you have talked about many times.... CLEANING IT is just a waste of time. YOU have BETTER things to do with your time and your energy.... ESPECIALLY this far along in your pregnancy.

SCREW THEM and what they think of you or your housekeeping or anything else.....

Walk away from it, in an "as is condition"..... you don't have a deposit riding on the condition, to be returned... YOU DON'T OWE THEM ONE DAM*^D THING....
 
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Walk away from it, in an "as is condition"..... you don't have a deposit riding on the condition, to be returned... YOU DON'T OWE THEM ONE DAM*^D THING....
Totally agree. And I suspect Miss JF cleans that house a lot more often than we clean ours. Wash the walls? Um, nope, we don't do that.
 

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