greybeard
Herd Master
I only said what I could Not do. That, is my agreement, with myself.Well, since ya wasn't in on...nor have I ever posted....the original "agreement" from its beginning and will not post anything about it either....so, every scenario ya can come up with will always be based on "assumptions"....there were some generalities that were shared, but not "dumb enough" to post on a forum....get real.....GB.....
You can and probably will do whatever you wish.
An analogy...
My daughter is the only one of my 4 children that wanted to go to college. I paid (cash) for most of her college costs.
Her brothers did not want to go to college but each just went to work, got married, raised their families. I've helped them occasionally when they needed it, but nowhere cumulatively near the amount it cost me to send daughter to college.
Now that I'm much older, I have made each of my children understand approximately what (and how much) they each will get upon my demise. My daughter and her brothers know, that there is no 'share and share alike' in their portion of my will, & that the 5 figure ($$,$$$) amount that she got for college years ago will be deducted from her share, and she's not only good with it, she insists it be that way. My sons would probably not gripe if it (1/2 my estate) was equally shared 4 ways (my wife gets the other 1/2) but my daughter would not stand for it. I raised them as I was raised and it stuck.
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