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elevan
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Well we're down one guinea broody. She's ok but something happened in the coop today to make her abandon and destroy her nest.
and I am glad you voiced it and had a good day on the farmelevan said:I'm gonna make a public statement that some might not like, but I will not hide it. I am the mother of a transgender child, a little girl who is trapped in a boys body. K is not a freak, nor is he gay. I am so frustrated by the words of people who are not walking in my shoes. My plane landed in Italy and their plane landed in Holland - the 2 are not the same. I am empowering my child to be exactly as s/he wants to be, whatever that may be in the end.
Just yesterday, I witnessed a family member voice disapproval of K's outward appearance. "A boy should look like a boy". Then a very proud mom moment happened as B, stepped up to defend his "brother" - "He feels like a girl. That is OK. You just leave him alone!".
Then another family member today. I let them have it this time.
I then told K, "The opinions / thoughts / actions of others are their problem. The only time they become your problem is when you let them change who you are. Just be yourself and I will always support you."
Then I got to thinking that those same words apply to everything in life - and everyone in life. Remember that the next time someone says or does something that upsets you.
We had a good day here on the farm, nothing to report. Just wanted to voice my thoughts on the subject above.