Ridgetop
Herd Master
Just caught up on Farmerjan's Journal! For some reason if I do not respond every single day to stuff these different journals disappear and I can't find them. I figured out to try putting those into "my favorites". Worked! Now I can just put everyone I like to keep up with into "my favorites" and then I can find those journals! Should have thought of trying that before! Hopefully I will be able to find everyone from now on.
Just read about your mom's passing and your troubles with your dad's issues. I am so sorry about your mom. Expected or not, death is so final that it catches us by surprise. The stress you have been under really does have a physical effect on your body. Stress and depression can cause body pain along with mental pain. Getting out of the old house finally will take some of this pressure off you.
On the other hand you are into haying season, which in itself is stressful, particularly considering the rain you keep having. Rain is good for growing but not when you are mowing and baling. With some older dairymen considering closing up, maybe you can at least semi retire - only doing half as many herds as usual. When you get your knees done this fall, you will have to take off time anyway. Are you considering retiring then? With all you do with the cattle and hay business you and DS run, and the chickens, gardening, etc., it seems like you have a full time jpb woth all that!!!
Hope you feel better soon with your knees. Hope things work out with your dad. Maybe it would be worth considering a residential care home for him where he could be watched 24/7. Next to POA brother? POA brother really needs to have meeting with you and other siblings to determine dad's care needs and put all of you in the picture about his problems.
Just read about your mom's passing and your troubles with your dad's issues. I am so sorry about your mom. Expected or not, death is so final that it catches us by surprise. The stress you have been under really does have a physical effect on your body. Stress and depression can cause body pain along with mental pain. Getting out of the old house finally will take some of this pressure off you.
On the other hand you are into haying season, which in itself is stressful, particularly considering the rain you keep having. Rain is good for growing but not when you are mowing and baling. With some older dairymen considering closing up, maybe you can at least semi retire - only doing half as many herds as usual. When you get your knees done this fall, you will have to take off time anyway. Are you considering retiring then? With all you do with the cattle and hay business you and DS run, and the chickens, gardening, etc., it seems like you have a full time jpb woth all that!!!
Hope you feel better soon with your knees. Hope things work out with your dad. Maybe it would be worth considering a residential care home for him where he could be watched 24/7. Next to POA brother? POA brother really needs to have meeting with you and other siblings to determine dad's care needs and put all of you in the picture about his problems.