Ridgetop
Herd Master
Same here.
It sounds like you do a tremendous amount of work especially during hay season. Even if you don't do as much with his cattle, you can still do yours. You enjoy going to the sales and you raise calves with your nurse cows. Maybe semi retire from some of his farm work and do more nurse cow calves and the cattle you like. Maybe start breeding and hatching specialty breeds of poultry if you like that.
It sounds like he is being really careful with her right now with the cancer. With all you do for yourself, he probably doesn't realize that you need his help more now. My boys are that way - so used to mom being able to do everything that unless I specifically ask them, they don't realize that I could use the help.
It sounds like you do a tremendous amount of work especially during hay season. Even if you don't do as much with his cattle, you can still do yours. You enjoy going to the sales and you raise calves with your nurse cows. Maybe semi retire from some of his farm work and do more nurse cow calves and the cattle you like. Maybe start breeding and hatching specialty breeds of poultry if you like that.
It sounds like he is being really careful with her right now with the cancer. With all you do for yourself, he probably doesn't realize that you need his help more now. My boys are that way - so used to mom being able to do everything that unless I specifically ask them, they don't realize that I could use the help.