Been a long week, and I have been off of here, for a couple days.
We finally got some sun and warming temps the last few days. Has dried up the ground nicely on top but still pretty wet in areas. Still, after snow then nearly .6 more rain last Sat and Sunday, we'll take this change. Today, Friday, is cloudy with some showers possible but looks to be staying a bit south of here. That's okay but I feel for those south as they have had their share and then some. It has been in the 60's and low 70's the last few days. After 20's and 30's at night warming to the 60's we have had roller coaster temps. Not normal. Last night got down to 61.... but then it is supposed to drop back to the 30's at night going forward.
My mom was in the hospital for a couple of days in NH. She has some dementia, and is back home but has to go for some therapy as all her "vitals" are good so Medicare won't pay for her to stay in a rehab. She is having trouble getting up, walking and such. I am going up in about 10 days, to my sisters, in Ct. then we are going to NH for a day or so. It will be a quick trip. There are alot of family dynamics, and not going to get into a "to-do" with my father or one brother over it. My sister feels that she is going downhill memory wise, and that this may be the last time I see her that she can still recognize me. My son has been suggesting I go up for about 6 months, so now it is happening.
I am more concerned about my son and the continuing headaches and now some "blank spots" happening occasionally during his day, in his memory from the work accident nearly 2 years ago. Plus the headaches have made driving some days a b@#@h and so I am doing some of the driving to the drs. appts. He is now contacting a workman's comp lawyer since the person at workman's comp has refused to allow some treatments/tests that the doctors have wanted for him.
His lawyer from the cell tower situation/lawsuit, has suggested someone for him and I have really pushed it. He needs to at least know what his options are, and any "statutes of limitations" that he may need to deal with. He saw a different craniologist last week, and they want an MRI which was refused by the workman's comp guy a year ago. This dr. has a SUPERB reputation, and is known to follow a problem until it can be resolved... so I am hoping he might be able to figure out and maybe fix the headaches etc. But we have been fighting the guy at workman's comp so I said, enough is enough, you NEED a lawyer to fight FOR you at this point.
And did I mention that the cell tower lawyer, has to go back to court for a hearing because the B@#@H and her lawyer refuse to sign the paper that the judge told our lawyer to draw up after the court case when they lost? So of course, more money... which is okay if we could get this resolved... but they seem to think that they don't have to sign this resolution. Our lawyer says they are trying to get it reworded so that they can go back to court in the future, and our lawyer has written it so that it will be a closed case after this. Obviously, so we are not going to be open to a future suit of any kind from her.... the thing is, this is just more aggravation that doesn't help the stress levels that make his headaches worse.
Verizon came back, went over the new "proposal" and all, with my son, and it will be resubmitted to the county. Hoping that it will only have to go to the board of supervisors, and not the planning and zoning, since it is the same property etc... we'll see. They (Verizon) are pretty determined to get this done it seems, and since they have met the concerns of the one neighbor about the proximity to their property, and even the B#@#H about the "roadway" along her property line... the only complaint she has it that she just doesn't want it to "spoil" her view.... there is very little to fight against.
I am continuing to work because if he winds up off work on disability, as his original doctor suggested, then he has said he will go with me to some of the farms to test and help me. This will continue to give me extra income that we might be needing. And it might mean making some adjustments to our farming. He will have more time to do things on the farm, but then any income will have to be considered.... it could get complicated. My concerns are more with him, then my mom, as there are others to handle that and my father has made it clear he "does not want my help" there. I am done fighting him. One of the reasons to go up with my sister... it will be less of an upset visit. Plus I haven't seen my sister in a couple of years. We don't talk alot, but seem to pick up right where we left off when we do. And there is no problems between us. Same with my other brother. It is just the one brother that there continues to be difficulties, and it will never change unless he does and that is unlikely because he cannot let things from the past go, no matter what we have done to try to resolve it.
So if I am somewhat absent from here at times, it is just trying to deal with things here. Have got to get a few farms that want to test, done, this next 10 days so I can leave. I will only be gone 3 full days at the end of the month.
On a good note, we are looking at about a week of sun coming this next week. We can really use it. My son is done lambing, only has about 10 ewes as he has culled quite a few and lost a few this winter; and we are starting to calve cows, so any decent weather will be welcome.