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farmerjan
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I would be just be "paying his bills" over and above what the disability payments cover... can't stop me from putting money in his account , or paying his bills..... and he is only helping me on the farm... no compensation and neither of us take a salary/paycheck from any of the farm work... his tax guy does all the farm taxes and all that... there is no actual salary taken from the income from the cows... it gets "written off", in whatever way he does it against mortgages, operating expenses, all that stuff.
It's all a racket. How many people do we know that are collecting disability payments and then see them out mowing lawns and cutting firewood and all sorts of things... "real disabled"..... several are just too lazy to get a real job... the one that is the real joke is he hurt his back... but cuts firewood... and sells it.. and I mean A LOT of truck loads of wood....
The long term disability for now might get him through as they have sent him to yet "another doctor"... to try something else, different PT....also determining if the vertebrae damage is going to have to be operated on... which he is very much NOT in favor of doing... He is scared of the possible outcome of paralysis... which I have to be optimistic about instead of being negative; if it could stop the pain by stabilizing the spot and maybe supporting the damaged area with fusing the 2... which is now being talked about as a possibility.... which should take the compression off the nerves in theory... maybe that would "fix things".... I just don't know... time to try some other stuff they want to do now, at least through the winter...
It's all a racket. How many people do we know that are collecting disability payments and then see them out mowing lawns and cutting firewood and all sorts of things... "real disabled"..... several are just too lazy to get a real job... the one that is the real joke is he hurt his back... but cuts firewood... and sells it.. and I mean A LOT of truck loads of wood....
The long term disability for now might get him through as they have sent him to yet "another doctor"... to try something else, different PT....also determining if the vertebrae damage is going to have to be operated on... which he is very much NOT in favor of doing... He is scared of the possible outcome of paralysis... which I have to be optimistic about instead of being negative; if it could stop the pain by stabilizing the spot and maybe supporting the damaged area with fusing the 2... which is now being talked about as a possibility.... which should take the compression off the nerves in theory... maybe that would "fix things".... I just don't know... time to try some other stuff they want to do now, at least through the winter...