We brought Cleo back in the house before we buried her, so Debbie would be aware of the situation. Poor Debbie, Cleo's been her best friend since we brought her inside as a 4 week old kitten.
So, very sorry for you. She probably was ready as vet said, besides the not feeling, doing good; they can't understand why someone does not come back that is "their person"... I hope that Debbie can adjust too.
It will be tough for you to make another transition soo soon.