Glad to hear that the little one has come around and is now thriving. Please don't feel like folks are/were judging you... It's very rare to find a goat knowledgeable vet. Since you seem to have found one, I'm sure everyone here will readily tell you to keep him/her! The folks who were trying to help have decades of experience with goats and were sharing what they've experienced. Nobody here would willingly try to steer someone wrong. And I'm also pretty sure we'd all willingly admit we don't know it all and there's always a "one off" that has never been seen before. Just one more bit of knowledge for all of us to store in memory just in case.