I had a WOW! moment today. We have had Pearl for 2 years. She is fairly easy to catch, but walks away from me, usually annoyed. She will follow me with a feed bucket, but what horse won't? I let her out after she eats and if I want to pet her, I have to hold her halter to keep her from walking away. I always talk to her, always pet and scratch her, then let her go.
This evening I opened the gate to let her out and scratched her chest. I didn't hold her halter. Pearl wrapped her neck around me and I rubbed and scratched her neck. I rubbed her side, belly and ribs. Then I switched sides. Pearl still didn't walk away and again wrapped her neck around me. I gave her lots of rubs and scratches. In 2 years, Pearl has NEVER asked for attention.
I put out a few flakes of hay, Prince and Sparkles stood in the barn eating hay, so I put some flakes outside for her. She stood in the doorway, watching me instead of going to the hay. I closed up the door to the feed room and walked Pearl over to a flake of hay. I talked to her and gave her some more rubs and scratches.
This has taken 2 years for Pearl to decide she can trust me. One of those WOW! moments I wanted to share 'cause I knew y'all would know how big it is
Congratulations! That must have been so gratifying!
The fancy pinto mare I have is like that. She has never had much handling, so I can catch her in a small pen, but she does not come to me unless I have feed and I cannot touch her unless she is haltered. I hope one day she decides to be like Pearl.
We had our granddaughters for the weekend. Pearl got some love from the youngest.
Then she took the two little girls for a ride. We went to the corner and back, about a mile. Pearl was a champion, she knew she had precious cargo aboard.
What a great girl Pearl is. Those are the best memories your making having your grandkids stay with you and doing farm stuff. Those grins are priceless.
The ring tailed tooter (youngest) wanted to go fast. She asked if next time, would I get a faster horse.
Turns out that Pearl's affection for me didn't last long. She was in heat and sized me up as a possible Baby Daddy. Poor girl, she backed up to me, wringing her tail. I don't know what made her decide that I was a handsome hunk of a stallion. I had to break the news to her that THAT wasn't going to happen! As soon as she was out of heat, I was an annoyance again, who happens to bring her feed.