Change of life sucks all around. I had a very mild case of man-o-pause a ways back in time. Now I'm just a fat, going bald, pretty broke down, old guy... ah well... it is what it is. When the "farm" gets to be too much, I'll sell out, buy a motor home, pack me and the dogs inside with comfort in mind, and start roaming the hemisphere... Follow the seasons and visit my kids and their kids as and when the desire arises. There are worse things in life to be doing...