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Ridgetop
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OMG! I am still so computer illiterate! What are those things of which you speak?
Too bad parents dont raise their kids like that today. Too much entitlement and think they deserve it even thought they havent earned it. My parents raised me like that too. I rarely buy myself anything new unless its finally worn out. Good to see that some people still feel that way.We gave up a lot to raise our kids the way we did. No new cars, no vacations until we found a 4-H mom willing to become my milk tester for DHIR. Then we were able to camp at the beach for a week. That was the only time my kids got soda. Too expensive otherwise. When DH's parents came to visit they brought sugary brands of cereal to my kids as a "treat". Otherwise cereal was too expensive, they ate oatmeal, French toast (you could still get "day old" bread then and I had 3 freezers, chickens, and goat milk) and pancakes. At supper I made scratch biscuits to fill everyone up. At the old house we ate everything out of the garden, at the new one we raised our own meat. I had our shoes resoled, patched and sewed our clothes, etc. I was lucky to have been raised by my grandmother who instilled in me the depression mentality:
"Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without."
The kids had 1 pair of shoes (which actually made it easier to keep track of them, LOL) in the winter, and a pair of sandals in the summers. The only new clothes we routinely had to buy were white jeans and shirts for 4-H showmanship, and all the 4-H parents used to trade back and forth! My children never went to the mall, and they earned the prize money they won at Fairs - we didn't give allowances for chores. They had to work for their suppers! LOL By the time they were 12 they were already working at jobs, feeding livestock and cleaning pens for neighbors on vacation babysitting, etc. 1 week at 4-H summer camp and they earned scholarships and the money to pay for it. I never put them into any summer programs, summer was for relaxing for me - no driving to school! We had a huge Doughboy pool, horses, miles of trails, and their friends were always welcome at our house. Chores had to be done by 9am and then they had the day free until evening milking. Chores took 2 hours am and 2 hours pm daily.
We were strict parents, but our kids worked hard and learned a good work ethic. Most importantly, they say they had a wonderful childhood!
Ask your kids!OMG! I am still so computer illiterate! What are those things of which you speak?
Coming soon, the same regs and forced compliance, to a Texas county near you.......measured wrong and were cited by the Fire Inspector. yes the Fire Department sends out inspectors and cites whoever they find in noncompliance. They do not just trust residents to do their job.
"Stupid is the sin that is never forgiven and always punished" - I just read that quotation yesterday - so true!