When people talk to me who are interested in showing goats I always tell them that if they will get upset or down on their animal if it comes in last then they shouldn't do it
It will surely happen
I totally agree with you OneFineAcre!
I share with people My first show experience as a kid so that they know it doesn't mean you're a failure because someone doesn't like your animal. Everyone's opinion is sooo different and everyone is looking at something a little differently. I was told that I should eat what I had for rabbits and get "real" rabbits all because she didn't like the mini lop breed I had, thought they were a useless pet breed. That made me even more driven to get even better stock and continue to improve and show her I was determined to stick with the breed. Since it was county fair and she was nasty to so many other kids she never was asked back

But the next year I rocked it with even better rabbits

Been hooked ever since. So as much as it sucked and was a bad memory she IS a big reason behind my drive and persistence. LOVE the constant struggle to improve lines, improve areas of weakness, and improve the breed in general. When I get negative feedback it does really suck but it also makes you aware of the areas to improve on and once you know strengths and weaknesses of your animals you can accurately cross them to one who is the perfect counter part or play around with different ones to find the best mix.

My favorite part is that there is no "perfect" animal and you are always striving to get better. I have probably hooked more people that way than anything. And if I see a kid who is down on themselves due to a comment I will remind them that NO ONE who has the top animals got there in a day or even a year. They had to work hard and go through everything they are going through.
There are several judges who have no table side manners though and are way more rough than they need to be while judging. For us adults it is not a big deal but when we hear the things they tell kids and the kids leave in tears it really bothers me. One told a kid they should be ashamed for putting an animal up and not catching its fault. I probably wouldn't have caught a broken toe that happened in the carrier at the show either. At my home before loading them, yes. But not once they are loaded.

Since then I have joined my local club and have learned which judges to request not to come back... Sounds horrible but with 3 years in a row of the same judge being rude to the youth and causing them to not come back, I had had it.
