farmerjan
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My grandmother passed several years ago at 98. She said for the last year or 2 that she was more than ready to go, but her heart was very strong and wouldn't quit. She lost her sight to macular degeneration in her early 90's, it just kept getting worse and worse, and that was really the "end" for her. She said everyone in her "group" was gone so what was the reason for her to stick around. Tried to get her to do some tape recordings about the family tree and stuff and she refused. I've tried to write some of it down, but don't have alot of it. My father is the next generation, and he won't record stuff either. It is a little hard to do it when you are 500 + miles away.... So much was lost with my grandmother.... she refused to let anyone record her voice... said it sounded terrible... but most all of us don't like the recorded sound of our own voices as it is different than what we "hear" when we are actually talking.
Her mother was 89. My grandfather was 87 or 89. his mother was 94 and her sister was 102 or 104.... she broke her hip 2 years before she passed on.... There are some families like your wife's, that are just long lived. It is nice if they are still mentally "with it". The font keeps changing on here for some reason.... GRRRR .... this computer drives me nuts... I am trying to find the one I normally use....maybe I won't get it. Maybe it will reset it's self when I turn it off...maybe it is the size?????
Her mother was 89. My grandfather was 87 or 89. his mother was 94 and her sister was 102 or 104.... she broke her hip 2 years before she passed on.... There are some families like your wife's, that are just long lived. It is nice if they are still mentally "with it". The font keeps changing on here for some reason.... GRRRR .... this computer drives me nuts... I am trying to find the one I normally use....maybe I won't get it. Maybe it will reset it's self when I turn it off...maybe it is the size?????