I have a new Nigerian mama who is a difficult milker. Her kid is now almost 4 weeks old and I have been milking for nearly 3 weeks 1x a day. My problem is she does not want to get on the stand so I have to lead her over on a leash. Lately she's even running from me when she knows I'm coming to get her on the leash. I have to lift her front legs onto the stand to kind of force her on it then get her head situated in the headlock with her grain. She then will kick when ever I try to touch her udder. I purchased a hobble and have been using that but she can still kick and actually will flip her back legs straight up into the air above her head into a hand stand and just fights me the whole time. I'm able to get about a quart out of her but it's very frustrating fighting with her the whole time. I would also like to use two hands and be able to leave the milk bucket underneath her to finish quicker without risking her kicking it over. Any ideas of how to train her to behave better? Or do I just have a stubborn girl who will eventually give in?