Baymule
Herd Master
That is her lady part, it is a little red, maybe it got irritated. It will be ok. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. You can do this. You are a first time momma and freaking out just a little bit......
My mischievous mind is running away with this one.....but I'll be nice and say it is right under her tail. Her vulva is below her anus.Does the female have an anus somewhere?