Bunnylady
Herd Master
POOR MANNERS & NO consideration.
I would let them all know this....& don't host another. Yeah, I know it's your uncle's place, so TELL HIM.
You know your family, I don't, but I know some people are simply oblivious. Before I just wrote the whole thing off, I'd come right out and ask for help. "You know, I love seeing you all, but all the work is killing me and I just don't think I can do it anymore." Maybe have specific things you want certain people to do?