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Beekissed
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That's exactly the point I came to about 10 yrs ago, where I was no longer holding down a job for the first time since I was 14....depending on someone else for your living after that is a hard, hard thing to do. I had to trust the Lord that it was where He wanted me to be in life, despite ridicule from friends...well...no longer friends of mine....and I still get the look when I say I'm not working, just taking care of my Mom. They all look at me like "riiiiiiiiggggghhhhtttttt.....so, how can you afford to do that???" My only explanation is that God took over and I've not wanted for anything at all, all my needs are provided for, pressed down, shaken together and running over.We all want to help others, but feel reluctant to ask for help ourselves. A man at church had a heart attack and surgery. It laid him out, helpless. He and his wife depended upon their church family for practically everything for awhile. It was a hard lesson for him.
He put it like this; he always helped others, receiving his blessings from the Lord. Suddenly he was on the receiving end of “help” and struggled with it. Pride. He realized that for others to receive their blessings, he had to accept help. Who was he to deny others their blessings and the good feeling of helping someone else.
I agree, Bay...it's hard to accept help when I was always the one helping others. Then, when I did accept help, I realized I had been hogging a lot of blessings all those years and it truly IS more blessed to give than to receive....others need a chance to give too. My neighbor is out there right now, smoothing gravel......I feel blessed on this end of the giving too!!!