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Mitransplant
Chillin' with the herd
It doesn't sound funny. Java has been the more friendly of the two and I pet her a lot more than Nutmeg will allow me to pet her. Don't know how to ignore preggers (Java) when Nutmeg won't come and let me pet her like Java will. I am trying to be patient and TRYING to divide time and affection but Nutmeg isn't making this to easy. Knowing Java is pg I do give her more attention and Nutmeg has been showing signs of jealousy. I thought the head butting was something that they all did but sometimes I think Nutmeg goes a little over board. She will go for Java's sides and I am afraid that will cause problems for the kid(s) in the long run. So I have been trying NOT to pay so much attention to Java and trying to get Nutmeg to come for a chin rub more. Any suggestions on something else I could be doing? Appreciate any thoughts here. Deb