We miss seeing you here at BYH. We worry about you and all the stress and workloads you have. Please take care of yourself. We hope you can find a solution soon.
Sorry to hear your DH has been having a rough time with the changing seasons....and there always seems to be something else taxing your time...........if ya collapse tomorrow, then others will certainly have to step up or do without....I agree with Bay....ya sure gotta take care of yourself....cause it is obvious that they don't care enough to give ya a hand in such a hectic situation....
Really sorry you're in this predicament. It's the rock or the hard place to choose between. I well know and understand. Tough choices are called that because they are. Try to get at least a little down/you time. Hope hubby and kids are back to normal soon. That has to exacerbate an already tenuous situation.