freemotion said:I read the question as "will I be able to find a baby this time of year?" Not: "What time of year can I breed my next goat?"
When someone learns a hard lesson, there is no need to continually rub their nose in it. Please be constructive and kind. How about offering fencing suggestions and links, along with sympathy, when someone is in mourning.
I wouldn't go to a funeral and say to the widow, "Well, I hope you feed better food to your next husband so he lives longer. Do some research!" Even if it is true, how about some kindness? A time and a place, please.
Sorry, this is a flat medium, and I am bothered by the tone a thread here can appear to take when someone suffers a tragedy.
That's true, but wouldn't you at least be a bit taken aback if the widow caught you in the funeral home parking lot and asked if you could come over later and help her sign up on eHarmony.com?freemotion said:I wouldn't go to a funeral and say to the widow, "Well, I hope you feed better food to your next husband so he lives longer. Do some research!" Even if it is true, how about some kindness? A time and a place, please.
cmjust0 said:That's true, but wouldn't you at least be a bit taken aback if the widow caught you in the funeral home parking lot and asked if you could come over later and help her sign up on eHarmony.com?freemotion said:I wouldn't go to a funeral and say to the widow, "Well, I hope you feed better food to your next husband so he lives longer. Do some research!" Even if it is true, how about some kindness? A time and a place, please.
Yep, and the nice people need to step up a bit more often and balance this out. Whether they agree or not is not really my point. It is being kind when someone's heart is broken.cmjust0 said:I do know what you mean, though.. I had some pretty rough things said to me for no good reason (IMHO) when I lost a goat recently, and it wasn't a pleasant experience.
Not all of us are adults. I am, but I really don't act like one most of the time.kimmyh said:we are all adults right?