My BJ, My Husband has Died

[Thefarmofdreams]

Bay, I feel your pain on rehoming your fur-babies. I went through that when my oldest son was little and I couldn't support everyone. It is SO HARD. I'm so glad you found wonderful homes for them!! It is definitely easier knowing they're loved and happy.

My thoughts are still with you through all of this!

 

[Margali]

Bay, this is so rough and you have our well wishes. I'm so glad you were able to find good homes for your horses! Snip and Aria will have a good home here.

Let me know if I can help now or when you move. We have a 7x16 trailer cargo trailer and can make it a trip to visit family in Houston.

 

[Baymule]

Thanks @Margali i do appreciate that. I know Snip and Aria will be in a good place with you. I have a cull ewe and her twins that I don’t like, that I’ll take to auction in a couple weeks. I’m also going to take Star, that white ram. I don’t need him, so he has to go. All of this will reduce my numbers to a manageable level. I’m going to put the farm up for sale in March, have twin lambs now plus 3 more that are due. So I’ll have lambs for sale in January-February to take to auction.

Ive got to get my farm stuff moved! I don’t want early shoppers thinking they get EVERYTHING! Aww HE!!! NO!

 

[cats_incredulous]

Loss of any kind is devastating, particularly yours. Only time can heal and how we wish it could be modulated to speed up. If you want to take naturopathic remedies to help balance your nervous system, let me know I can help you, and I will get them for you at my cost (50% off).

 

[Ridgetop]

We will be back in TX early November or early December. Need to be home for Thanksgiving since DS3 is hosting entire family. He has already cleaned out the disaster playroom, installed new cabinets and sleeper sofas and is figuring out where to put everyone. Can't disappoint him.

If you have some stuff sorted to take down to Trinity, we can rent a U-Haul for the pickup and take a load in that as well as in your stock trailer. Once you know what you need to do to the new house, we can help you do painting, or fix ups. Or at the current house. Let us know what you need and we will bring our tools too.

 

[Baymule]

We will be back in TX early November or early December. Need to be home for Thanksgiving since DS3 is hosting entire family. He has already cleaned out the disaster playroom, installed new cabinets and sleeper sofas and is figuring out where to put everyone. Can't disappoint him.

If you have some stuff sorted to take down to Trinity, we can rent a U-Haul for the pickup and take a load in that as well as in your stock trailer. Once you know what you need to do to the new house, we can help you do painting, or fix ups. Or at the current house. Let us know what you need and we will bring our tools too.

I love ya'll so much!

 

[Baymule]

Bay, this is so rough and you have our well wishes. I'm so glad you were able to find good homes for your horses! Snip and Aria will have a good home here.

Let me know if I can help now or when you move. We have a 7x16 trailer cargo trailer and can make it a trip to visit family in Houston.

I just might take you up on that girlfriend!

 

[Poka_Doodle]

Bay, I nearly cried reading about your old friends. I know it must be hard doing what you are doing for them, but it is amazing to see how much you care about them, and getting them into good homes.

 

[Baymule]

I went to the funeral home today and picked up BJ in a box. BJ in a Box sounds like a catchy name for a new toy doesn't it? Just don't open the box.

He's on an end table in the living room. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I think I just joined the Club of Crazy Old Widow Women who talk to their husband in a box or urn or whatever. At least mine has a catchy name.

 

[Alaskan]

I went to the funeral home today and picked up BJ in a box. BJ in a Box sounds like a catchy name for a new toy doesn't it? Just don't open the box.

He's on an end table in the living room. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I think I just joined the Club of Crazy Old Widow Women who talk to their husband in a box or urn or whatever. At least mine has a catchy name.

Anyone worth knowing is never all right in the head.

Us crazy folks are the best folks.

At least you talk to ashes... I talk to myself, while at the grocery store.