I remember someone ranting to me one time about how their baked potato from Wendy's had dirt on it.. I was pretty much engaged in 'passive listening' where you hear keywords and go "mmhmm" or whatever when there's a pause, or make some really benign comment related to the one or two words that actually registered with you..
So, my benign comment was "Well, they do grow in the ground I guess..."
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And then realized there was absolute silence..
After a few seconds of dead air, I snapped to and realized that the person was just standing there, dumbfounded, as a tiny part of their worldview shattered into a zillion tiny little pieces.
Pretty sure I was the first person to ever tell them where potatoes come from. And this was a peer of mine...I'm 32.
So, my benign comment was "Well, they do grow in the ground I guess..."
.
..
...
And then realized there was absolute silence..
After a few seconds of dead air, I snapped to and realized that the person was just standing there, dumbfounded, as a tiny part of their worldview shattered into a zillion tiny little pieces.
Pretty sure I was the first person to ever tell them where potatoes come from. And this was a peer of mine...I'm 32.