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promiseacres
Herd Master
Two weeks ago had a deposit put down on 2 ewes and a ram lamb by a 4H girl... they were to pick them up on this Saturday.
Then last Friday my dh Josh had a 1200+ combine tire fall on him (it was on forklift forks) breaking his ankle and lower leg.
Yesterday Josh had surgery, 3 screws were put in. He can't drive, he can't put weight on the leg for at least 8 more weeks so he can not return to his "regular" job. Also last night this 4Her texts me, she wants her deposit back had a vet emergency, she wants the sheep but has no $. I had to spend her $ on bills b/c of the extra expenses with DH's accident, all his dr visits/surgery has had to be 50+miles away. She knew I do not refund deposits. The ram lamb in question is in a catch pen b/c of his being a total PAIN to wean. I had made her a REALLY good deal b/c she is a 4Her AND she was willing to take the pain of a ram lamb. I told her Dh's situation a few days ago so she KNEW the date of surgery, I've not replied back to her request.... today was payday, it was decent b/c of the overtime DH had started working. Dh says refund 1/2 of the deposit BUT It WILL be the last "nice" one, and will be getting workers comp only for who knows how long, which is probably 2/3s what his normal pay is AND no OT... I don't want to be a B****** BUT.... REALLY???
The upside is our church family & neighbors are helping, meals, child care, mowing, chores. Me & baby are doing ok but definately not up to 100%. I KNOW this is just yet another mountain we need to climb.
Then last Friday my dh Josh had a 1200+ combine tire fall on him (it was on forklift forks) breaking his ankle and lower leg.
Yesterday Josh had surgery, 3 screws were put in. He can't drive, he can't put weight on the leg for at least 8 more weeks so he can not return to his "regular" job. Also last night this 4Her texts me, she wants her deposit back had a vet emergency, she wants the sheep but has no $. I had to spend her $ on bills b/c of the extra expenses with DH's accident, all his dr visits/surgery has had to be 50+miles away. She knew I do not refund deposits. The ram lamb in question is in a catch pen b/c of his being a total PAIN to wean. I had made her a REALLY good deal b/c she is a 4Her AND she was willing to take the pain of a ram lamb. I told her Dh's situation a few days ago so she KNEW the date of surgery, I've not replied back to her request.... today was payday, it was decent b/c of the overtime DH had started working. Dh says refund 1/2 of the deposit BUT It WILL be the last "nice" one, and will be getting workers comp only for who knows how long, which is probably 2/3s what his normal pay is AND no OT... I don't want to be a B****** BUT.... REALLY???
The upside is our church family & neighbors are helping, meals, child care, mowing, chores. Me & baby are doing ok but definately not up to 100%. I KNOW this is just yet another mountain we need to climb.