I can be a little verboseWait til you get to @Latestarter. I'm only halfway thru his!
Not sure where in TN you are located, but I'll be heading over to visit with @Mike CHS and his wife and take delivery of a load of processed lamb for my freezer. He's about 1/2 way across the state down just north of the AL border. If you're within range, I'm sure they'd be happy to have you visit at the same time. Perhaps we could go out to a meal? Or some such? The planned BBQ for last fall never came about... Right now it's just too danged hot. I suppose I better get started on scheduling something for late Sept time frame. You'll be welcomed to attend!Reading posts in @Latestarter's journal about the things you all do, especially the BBQs Latestarter has done, make me wish I lived near you.
Oh, and as an aside, there are lots of hobby farm sized places available over this way for reasonable prices... I know you have aging/unwell parents you're dealing with so understand.
Hope things stabilize for you sooner rather than later. Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. I'm lucky that I'm retired military so I could "afford" to walk out on my employment. Most folks aren't at liberty to do so, and as a result, they kinda become job "captives"... Either not financially able to walk away, or not willing to do what's necessary to "escape". Employers are well aware of this as well. Don't think for a moment that they don't take advantage of it either. After a draw down where I worked, the management's position was that we should be happy to deal with all the crap as the alternative was to become unemployed. They thought we should be happy that we still had jobs...