I appreciate everyones thoughts and prayers.
Teat dialators are a no go. Try as i might, scream as she would, i could NOT get them in to where they wpuld stay. It did help the one teat that is sealing without a scab over the orifice, but im now watching that teat for gangrene as the orifice is black. She is losing scabs slowly, and only one teat tip needs to be peeled but milking is still painful. Doesnt seem as bad, but is still rough going.
I was going to dry her up, but because i cant get those dialators in, i wont do that. Ill keep her milking until she is all healed up to ensure flow continues and infection is gone/out of the question. Itll also help to rebuild our milking relationship and to stop her from associating the act of milking with pain. Despite all this, she is still giving a liter and a half.
Maybe itll do us all good.