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misfitmorgan
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Been there and Done that.....when I had the 1st heart attack I found out that my "Definitions" and the ones used by others, tho the same words, definitely had different definitions. Then I realized that the communication and "Love and Care" was just a one-way street. Nobody called to check on me, try to visit me, or even sent any money to help pay a bill or 2 with none coming in for about 3 months. I intentionally did not call any, just to see how long it would be before they cared enough to call...none did, not family or friends. So, then I began marking them off my "List". I have done a few things here and there, just because that is who I am, but I have the 2 oldest daughters, my sister, and many that used to be called friends that I haven't talked to since '12, when Mom died. About the only contact me and my sister have is dealing with Dad's situation. I won't even start about the in-laws, but suffice it to say...I wouldn't cross the street and P**s on them if they were on fire. Blood and family used to matter to me, but no more. I communicate right here with y'all and would help ya out, before I would lift a finger to help any of the others...even family. Didn't mean to vent on your Journal, but just so ya know ya aren't the only one. As far as the pigs go, if I was in your shoes I'd have sent them to freezer camp and said I thought it was for the lack of Payment for food and upkeep....
No worries, i enjoy conversation whatever it is so vent or rant or whatever you wanna do on my journal. Family is still important to me but i only have one friend and she does do stuff for me/us too, the rest i got rid of.
No room in the freezer for the pigs we have two pigs in there already lol. Besides DH only has 2 actual people he considers friends and this guy is one of them so i dont wanna rock the boat. Eventually DH will get sick of it and that will be the end of it.
How dare you call my piles of treasures crap!...just joking, it is crap for sure
I think most people look at the place and are like what a dump but it could be so so very gorgeous. DH is suppose to be finding out how long they legally have access to the property in Michigan. Trust me as soon as we can legally keep them off the place we will be more then happy to tell them so. DH wants to get a trail cam and set it up facing the driveway lol.DH was to busy at work to call the finance guy yesterday, he is suppose to call today on his lunch because today should be slower. We planned on putting something like that in the paperwork but then i dont know if they would sign it. I am pretty sure legally we only have to send a letter to the sheriff's department declaring the 30days and the last day they are allowed on the property and the sheriff will let them know, then we dont have to deal with them after that. They have already tried to take our stuff. They tried to take our rabbit cages, our hay rack, our brand new roll of fencing. They do the ok well we are gonna go load this...umm no thats ours...the hay rack they have listed for sale with their junk ones and we told them that is our hay rack not yours.
Honestly they seem more dumb then anything, like honestly never very bright people.
Like when we had the first 20yard dumpster there they were doing something and their son and them came over and piled a bunch of computers and crap out of the garage in there and were like ok there it is full. So we called a scrap guy we know and he came and went thru the dumpster and took all the computers out and anything metal and every single extension cord etc....it rained rained a few days and they came back like 3 or 4 days later and were like "Oh look at that the rain must have pushed the stuff all down." Do you have any idea how hard it was not to laugh out loud in front of them, i literally had to say excuse me i need to check on the dogs and went in the house so i could laugh and then compose myself. It was so very very very obvious that the stuff they had put in there like the 30 computers was gone.
So anyhow they got more crap out and we kept having the scrap guy come get stuff and then one day they were like we are gonna find someone to come buy the scrap. They were like we probly have about $2,000 in scrap here (again so hard not to laugh) then asked if we wanted to buy it. Hell no i do not want to buy your junk that i already picked up at least once. DH told them scrap was only about $6/ton so no one was going to pay for it but he could probly find someone to take it off for free. They were gonna check around, so after 5 months DH called his scrap buddy and had him come in and start taking loads of stuff off. After 5 trucks loads and 2 trailer loads over about 7 months we told them we found someone to take the one metal pile off the place and they were like ok good go ahead.
When i gave them the last rent payment they told me their nephew was gonna come over and take some scrap off and was the place frozen enough. I told them yes it was but it was gonna warm up in a few days so then he wouldnt be able to get in for scrap. So the nephew shows up that weekend when we are not home and it has warmed up so it's all mud. Got stuck twice trying to get to the farm implements section which is maybe 25ft down the one driveway from the road, loaded an old plow and i assume was in mud to deep to go anywhere because they made it 3ft and the plow was unloaded and they left. This is all our assumption because we were not home as i mentioned but from the aftermath that is as near as we can figure. So yeah he isnt to bright either.
These people are also just so very lazy. They had us pull the trailer out of the machine shed in november so they could get new tires on it. It's still sitting where we pulled it out and they have been here 6 times to put new tires on it and keep having some sort of problem. It still has no tires.
